A PICTURE CAN SPEAK A THOUSAND REJECTIONS!

Gay men, the internet and sex have become synonymous over the years. But what about the many men who turn to the net for love and relationships? Often times it's all in the presentation. Have you ever been to the grocery store looking for a certain product and debated over what brand to buy (especially if you don't have a favorite)? Some of us choose based on the nutritional value or cost alone, but most of us are drawn to the packaging and description of the product and then evaluate the supporting information. Imagine if your favorite cereal came in a white box with no graphics or explanation of what was inside. No matter how good or bad it was, you probably wouldn't buy it.

The same holds true for online profiles. No matter what the reputation of the site, profiles serve as a first impression and allow other men to build a story about who you are as a person (am I'm not just talking about the physical). How you present yourself on the shelf can make all the difference between snagging your dream lover or enjoying 15 minutes of fame. Here's how you can turn a hook up site into a dating haven.

A PICTURE CAN SPEAK A THOUSAND REJECTIONS!
Even the most gory of movies never show the most graphic scene on the DVD cover. They leave something to mystery, plus they don't want to scare potential viewers away. A man who values an intellectual thriller is not likely to rent a movie with exposed intestine on the cover.

Keep the intrigue by saving the details until you and your dream man are intimate for the first time. Show a little chest or even a leg, but if you wouldn't show it in public don't show it online. By keeping your pics on the PG-17 or R-rated scale you're showing your suitor that you're about more than just about sex. Graphic shots may get more quantity, but it's the quality of man you're looking for.

love that never last and survivedLook at me, tell me what do you see
A man almost lost his heart in love?
A man almost lost his way in the path?
A man almost lost his will in life?

.love that never last and survived, And with it took my heart. I still remember those days as it was yesterday. I never been loved like that and never will, that love for me was so perfect. But as the old saying: careful what you wish for. I shouldve known that a love like that will never live, although I never thought it would never die. This is a small example of lifes irony. God created mankind, and with mankind, religions. And that what makes it impossible to live. I love that person so much, but I love then my families too, that when I sacrificed my love to my family for the love of my soul. And plan for an escape to anywhere, so I could live forever untouched by harm. But the price was so high I couldnt afford it, so high that comes to a point of leaving everything I have and everything I wanted to be, what could I possibly do? Have to sacrifice my heart for the love of my life. And god knows that when I take a breath, I take another one for that special person, even sometimes time made me so weak already. I wish I did never taste it, the taste of true love. And then, out of nowhere someone showed up, showing cared, which I believed that dream, but the truth I couldnt bear, that the feeling was so real. That someone will love me as I am. But I fell in the trap of love again, with the price I paid is higher than I thought. So I made an oath, I will never love again until Ive been loved. This way I will prevent my self of getting harmed. Now I am lost, no one to trust, this is how I feel. I cried so many nights, knowing that god created me alone. This is my destiny and it will always be. I will try to live with it praying god to take my life from me if not being with somebody..

IMPORTANT THINGS TO PONDER FOR EVERYONE:

Most of us think that everybody wants to end in a serious relationship but the real thing is, NO. Most mislead love for looks for the latter must always precede love. They try to ignore intangible things especially the real goodness of the person which makes him capable of being loved not merely for physical attributes. Instead of knowing the person first and see whats his inside, people judge others based on metaphysical. Instead of learning to appreciate people near them they always look for another for more satisfaction and fulfillment. No contentment. Eventually, most redound to only after sex..sex..and sex.. (I’m not saying that sex is bad though. It must be done with the right person for a very good reason, that is out of love. ). So don’t fool yourself that you want a serious relationship. That you want love. No, you are just naturally inclined to flesh earthly desire. You are a damn fool if you will just make justifications. Accept it for it will set you free.

Now, Where is love? None. Misconception of love instead. Not unless we learn the real meaning of love and set aside those so many justifications and inhibitions, we will never experience the real happiness in our entire life…Instead, grow old alone..and die alone.. Basis? Think of couples who stay together longer. How many of them? How long did they last? A month? A year? Does anyone need to be so thankful if it reaches 3 years? What went wrong? Eventually, the answer can be found on the first sentences I mentioned above.

Respect, Contentment, Loyalty, Commitment, Fear from God are the real essence of love. Real things that love cannot do without. Be a real smart guy. If you don’t have those and always mislead yourself to metaphysicals, then you do not know what real love means. Goodluck for your life will eventually lead to misery and deception.

Anyone might call me dramatic.. or anything but id rather be one than be like an empty can in a trash..(which you prefer then? )